Stoicism? Reality really. No time to waste, so I am not worried about what cannot be changed in my body. To be frank,the drugs to stem the damned Tap Dancer makes me feel worse! Therefore the upcoming treatment has no fear coming from me. What will be will be.Arzosah wrote: ↑Tue Feb 14, 2023 10:17 amIt really is, isn't it Your stoicism is astounding, jansman, I think you and your wife are amazing. Since you've got the meeting with the undertaker (!!!) on Thursday, and your radiology and chemotherapy start next week, can I *please* ask you to have some time together with your wife, going to a favourite panorama and taking your favourite pie with a nice brew, something like that? Or a full family get together with different people bringing different food, so it doesn't all fall to you and your wife to provide? It will set you up!
And, erm, today is Valentine's Day - I don't know if you're allowed alcohol or not, but if you're not, get someone to go to the shops and get something fizzy - water, tonic water, lemonade, whatever, and have a toast with one another! These things are preps too.
Regarding Valentine’s Day,it’s something we have always refused to pay über prices for! My dear wife will get flowers towards the end of this week. I generally buy her some most weeks anyway. We will get a takeaway curry from our local restaurant on Wednesday too. We saw the owner on Saturday,and we told him we’d leave it until then as we know he’ll be busy. Lovely bloke he is. Also, Wife and me are not bothered about going out and such. As long as we are together,we light the fire,eat a nice meal,and watch films and such. Indeed she asked me if I wanted to go on holiday anywhere. Nah! As long as I am at home,then that will do. That pleased her,and that pleases me! Job done.
Oh yes, I am allowed a drink. It’s not slowed me down. There’s always a bottle of wine of an evening. My Oncologist asked if I smoke? No. Never have. Drink? Yes. Do I stick to the limit? No. After all,it won’t kill me!, In fairness to the doctor,it did make her laugh.
Anyhow. Everyone stay cheerful and positive. Don’t waste time. Xx