PreppingPingu wrote:
My daughter does Taekwondo and they do a lot of self defence in that, and it keeps you very fit too! She's been taught what is acceptable and what is legal, and she now has an idea of how defend against multiple opponents to give her the time and space to get away. Kicking and blocking, a fair smattering of boxing, are all involved in the sport itself. You still have the similar martial "art" manners of courtesy and respect etc but quick reactions and how to avoid become second nature now. Her reflexes have improved dramatically, from catching things that drop to instinctive blocks when messing about - she is impossible to get the jump on now! In all honesty and imho, any martial art, from the gentle to the aggressive will all help physical and mental fitness. Do which ever one take your fancy and that you feel comfortable with. Try several types - most places offer between 1 and 3 taster sessions. (Sorry I get a bit over excited at things like Taekwondo - I just see such all round benefits and improvements with people I have known who take them up! *looks sheepish* )
as about fighting few opponents - please explain your daughter that real fight with few ppl may get out of control quite easy and fight against few guy who really want to harm you is not same as fight with few wimps who don't know how to move or hit. best fight against few opponents is to run
same with defence from knife - I've seen classes of kung fu for 10 years old kids - the "master" was teaching them how to defend from knife - without explaining how deadly weapon it might be. and it seemed so easy for kids to defend from knife. the point is it was bullshit - kids are overconfident about knives and some day something wrong might happen as knife attacker will not stab you the way "master" showed on classes - again - fight with imbecile who wants to harm you with knife is not same as fight with wimp who thinks he can threaten you just by holding a knife. best fight against person with knife is to run
and as it is good to know how to defend yourself sometimes it is better to run for your safety than die as a "hero"
I was attending self defence classes where we were training real situations like fighting in toilets, fighting against few and so on, and it is not as easy as the guys "attacking" were doing it all at once, shouting, insulting, pushing you like bullies do - great training and opens eyes, and you may be MMA champ and you won't defend against 2 random guys who really want to harm you and jump on you like crazy.
overconfidence can kill