Stoicism? Reality really. No time to waste, so I am not worried about what cannot be changed in my body. To be frank,the drugs to stem the damned Tap Dancer makes me feel worse!Arzosah wrote: ↑Tue Feb 14, 2023 10:17 amIt really is, isn't itYour stoicism is astounding, jansman, I think you and your wife are amazing. Since you've got the meeting with the undertaker (!!!) on Thursday, and your radiology and chemotherapy start next week, can I *please* ask you to have some time together with your wife, going to a favourite panorama and taking your favourite pie with a nice brew, something like that? Or a full family get together with different people bringing different food, so it doesn't all fall to you and your wife to provide? It will set you up!
And, erm, today is Valentine's Day - I don't know if you're allowed alcohol or not, but if you're not, get someone to go to the shops and get something fizzy - water, tonic water, lemonade, whatever, and have a toast with one another! These things are preps too.
Regarding Valentine’s Day,it’s something we have always refused to pay über prices for! My dear wife will get flowers towards the end of this week. I generally buy her some most weeks anyway.
Oh yes, I am allowed a drink. It’s not slowed me down. There’s always a bottle of wine of an evening. My Oncologist asked if I smoke? No. Never have. Drink? Yes. Do I stick to the limit? No. After all,it won’t kill me!,
Anyhow. Everyone stay cheerful and positive. Don’t waste time. Xx